My work with couples follows the style and teachings of Pia Mellody (Facing Love Addiction, Facing Codependence, and The Intimacy Factor), and Terry Real, ( I Don't Want to Talk About It, the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, How Can I Get Through to You, Reconnecting Men and Women and The New Rules of Marriage, How to Make Love Work).
Couples who have been “stuck” in dysfunctional patterns of interaction learn how to utilize functional boundaries with each other. Communication focuses around the simple but necessary element of respect, thereby deepening the couples’ intimacy.
Intensive therapy sessions are offered for couples looking to improve or save their relationship. Most sessions require a two-hour period every two to three weeks. Homework is assigned to strengthen and improve the couples’ skills.Homework may also include utilizing other resources as appropriate such as: reading books or listening to tapes/CDs, seeing a psychopharmacologist, attending related12-step meetings or attending specific workshops which may further growth and healing.
I also offer half day and full day sessions for couples that are out of town. Full day sessions can be scheduled during Monday through Friday from 10am to 5pm with a one hour lunch break from 1-2pm, a 10 minute break in the morning and another 10 minute break in the afternoon. Half day sessions are from 10am until 1pm with a 10 minute break in between.